To follow on from my post last week’s about strong women on International Women’s Day, I think today I will write more about the invaluable support friends bring to our lives. Yep, that’s what I will do – spend a whole blog writing about the support of friends in wellness, weight management and just life in general.
And not just any friends, the type of friends in the words of Oprah Winfrey ‘…who would take the bus with you when your limo breaks down…..’ It is my sincere hope that everyone has some of these friends. You know the ones who it is totally acceptable for them to tell you all the details of why they don’t like your outfit or the ones who are more than ok with coming around to your house to have a nap. They are the ones.
When it comes to wellness, these friends know they hold incredible power to you guiding on the road to thriving. They would go out with you when you were having ‘me’ time or stay home with your children (or dog) while you went and had that said ‘me’ time. Other things they might do is notice when you are doing it tough and actually do something about it, not wait until you lose your s#%t before they take action to help you.
While some of the supports might be the same as wellness, weight loss and gaining health can also be ably assisted by friends. They might question if you really need that second piece of cake, or they might gently (!) persuade you to go for a walk or a quick fun run with them – even if your idea of fun is different to theirs! Regardless of the differences, true friends wholeheartedly want to see you succeed. And how good is that feeling that someone has your back?!
The friends who you know, without question, want you to succeed are the ones you choose to do life with. At risk of sounding old, I can absolutely say the value of dear friends is amplified as you get busier, and older!! These are the friends who you make time for and they make time for you. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve ‘phoned a friend’ to share when I was having a bad time. I didn’t want them to provide solutions, I just knew they wouldn’t question my position and would 100% support me.
The love of a dear friend can be what you need most, even when you don’t know you do. Or their support might just be the difference between you moving forward or you staying exactly where you are. Or just that their support kindly points out the funny side of a situation, even if it wasn’t even remotely close to your humour radar!
I’ll finish with a disclaimer – having friends won’t make you immune to tough times, but it will definately make the bus trip of life much more delightful, gratifying and treasured!